Author(s): Shade Ladipo
August 27, 2013
Abuja based OAP, lawyer and blogger Ese Walters dropped a bomb that shocked the social media sphere (well it didn’t shock everyone).
Her affair with COZA head pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo who has been described as charismatic and charming. I have watched Pastor Biodun preach a couple of times online. While I have to agree that he’s very charming, why is there so much emphasis on Ese and less on the Pastor?
Why are we concentrating on the only person who has shown the most courage so far?
Why cant we recognise this as abuse? Even not sexual abuse but mental/psychological abuse?
Sexual abuse is not the only form of abuse and for the record, Ese Walters was abused.
Franca E who also reported the similar story has been threatened and yet we still deem it fit not to question this “Man of God”
We don’t question our leaders for ‘chopping’ our money, we don’t question our fathers for being absent in our lives, we don’t question our teachers for molesting our students, we don’t question men in power for misusing authority BUT we question the young lady who was bold enough to stand and speak.
Let us start questioning the people we think we are scared of. They are men too.